Do you boo cause that all you can do.

What's wrong with putting your thoughts and opinions out there we all have the right to share ourselves our views and opinions with the world, who cares if no one else likes it this is about what you like. Everybody wants to tell you what you can and cannot do with yourself but it doesn't matter because in the end we will all stand alone to atone for our own actions so speak freely and loudly express yourself and as the young folk say "DO You"

Being Me and being Nautral

Recently I've noticed that I have become more and more protective an defensive about being natural. I always find myself not wanting to post things online about being natural or how awful I think chemically straighting our hair is, for fear of offending people, when I really want to scream it from the rafters. My honest opinion is whether you think it or not holding on to your relaxed hair is subconsciously admitting that being who we are is not good enough for this world, this is the one thing that we as African American people have that no one else can have. Our hair texture is one of the few things that is uniquely us and what do we do? slap some crack on it and call ourselves presentable well ya know what FUCK your idea of presentable MY hair is NAPPPY KINKY and ALL me if that makes me less acceptable I'll take it. :)

Big and Beautiful the short version

I am so upset I had the most perfect 6page blog ready to post and I saved it on my phone cause it was one of those spur of the moment type deals and I lost it, which suck monkey b***s but anyway..... I was watching Tyra and she had overweight teen girls on and was giving them good eating habits and yadda yadda and I'm thinking to myself "self what does Tyra know about being the FAT girl in school" I wanted to jump through the TV. And sit each one of those young women down and let them know the only person that they should care about is themselves who cares if people make un of you, they don't define you, once you know that you are better than what they say you are their words won't be able to hurt you. High school is only for a short time and sometimes not all the time filled with asses so ignore them and hold your head up high, embrace and flaunt your curves because in. A few years all those who clowned during high school will wanna date you or be like you because you are comfortable in your body and comfortable. In your sexy. Big girls remember Embrace your Sexy , flaunt your curves, be healthy and be happy.

Quickie

I am head over heels in loves with my locs as of late, I know me and these bad boys have been together for a minute but i am crazy about them still. I think my freeforming my locs is whats making the love so intense, now instead of focusing on keeping them straight and neat as a pin just concentrating on keeping them happy and pampered is keeping me happy and in love with them. That's it nothing more for now just wanted to shout out my love for freeforming and my love of my locs, off to have some coffee and chill. Smooches

Guess I am crafty

Its been so long since I've rambled on the blog, but I'm back so my foray into soapmaking was a success i love it, I've made about 4 batches so far including a shampoo bar that my locs just love. I have found my new addiction and i am hooked and loving it. Soapmaking is giving me the creative outlet i needed right now so I'm pretty happy about that pics will be up soon of all my ugly but wonderful soaps.

crafty me?........ well let's find out

Basically I've had an interest in homemade soaps and shampoos ever since I first went natural almost 10 years agol. Now I've finally decide to take a stab at it, after countless amounts of research and convincing my honey I won't burn myself I will be the proud creator of my own health and beauty aids (at least I will when my equipment arrives) yay me!!!!. I know that I would love to mkake this a side business for myself but right now its just for fun I can't wait to see what happens.

Happy Natural Hair Day!!!

For those Who are natural and on Twitter today is natural hair day so to all you Ladies and Gents I wish you a Happy Nappy Day!

Anywho just stopping in don't want to let this blog go to waste again< whats said about my whole blogging idea is that when i get the inspiration to share and be creative I get all shy and afraid of criticism, sometimes i don't think that i am the cut out to be a blogger. I wish there was a way to blog like i do in my journal cause on here no matter what i say or do i still feel the need to censor myself and that's not why i started this. I wanted to chronicle my loc journey my TTC journey but every time i have what i think is a decent blog post i change my mind and run away. I need an outlet i know that i do but somehow the transfer from plain ole pen and paper to this new fangled (at least to me) blog this just isn't working for me right now. But for now this will be a place of run-on sentence bad grammar horrible punctuations and whatever pops into my head and if you don't like it let me know that's better than nothing.